Word of the day: TRUTH

Some people need a high five, in the face. With a chair.

Others, well they just need a clue.

Some people would disagree with me and the method I occasionally use.  However I feel that it’s better to know, in spite of how hurtful it may be as opposed to not knowing at all.  Which is why I generally don’t play the same game that boys generally do. Which is to ignore the person or problem in the hopes that it will go away.  Clearly men who do that, have no balls.  They think that they’re sparing our feelings but in reality it’s just plain insulting and makes us want to plot revenge against your sorry ass.

It takes character and a spine to tell someone how you really feel.  Even if those feelings aren’t exactly nice.  Bottom line is, not everyone is aware of their actions.  They might acknowledge it in their own mind, however it puts a whole new spin on things when someone else has the guts and the integrity to tell you just how they feel.  There ARE ways to do it without being catty, vengeful or mean.  In my opinion, even if you were; I would at the very least respect you for being true to yourself and having the guts to be straight with me.

Which brings me to this:

Eons ago I started talking to a guy for a brief period of time.  Nothing ever came of it, in fact we never did meet.  Recently I got an e-mail from said person wondering what I’d been up to and to be perfectly honest, I didn’t even remember who he was.  I admitted as much because i’m honest like that and he was considerate enough to remind me.  The issue? He did it ALL wrong.  So that being said, I thought that I could perhaps just let it go and move on -OR- I could steer him in a better direction. Maybe.  In any case, I admire the fact that he had the balls to be that honest with a total stranger.  That takes a lot of guts and I admire that.  Although on the other side of the coin, it’s not what you say; sometimes it’s how you say it…

Behold:

I live in NDG and I think you do as well. Indeed.

I’m 33 and younger than you, if my memory serves me correct. No, no it does not.
Probably told you I have not been with many women, so my experience is lacking, but am a great kisser and a huge fan of oral sex.
All guys are alleged to be HUGE fans of oral sex, did you really play that card?  Also, there was a HFMD outbreak at work, my lips have finally lost the $5 hooker appearance but still… 
Definitely would say I’m a giver in that sense. Umhm…  Compensating?
I’m 5’6″ about 150lbs with brown hair and eyes.  So you’re short. Yeah.
I remember you being bigger than me, WTF?!? Um yeah likely because I’m taller than you by several (4 inches) and must resemble an amazonian giant to persons of your height or shorter. 
but we didn’t share much since you were doing laundry… Right. Laundry. The bane of my exsistance!  However I also seem to recall that he didn’t make any effort after that and I don’t chase after people…
That’s pretty much what I remember and probably what I shared with you. Indeed.

If it isn’t obvious already, what I was THINKING is in italics.  However this is my actual reply:

Sorry about the delayed reply, my phone didn’t notify me that there was a new e-mail in this account.  I rarely check it, as I mentioned previously.  That being said:

You’re correct.

If your birthday falls after June 12th you would be younger.
Yes, you did mention that to me previously.  Now I have a better recollection of who you are.
Bigger than you? Wow. Of all the inappropriate things to say to a woman, that would be on the top of my list.
Friendly piece of advice, don’t do that.  I am TALLER than you are & aren’t a skinny bitch either, but didn’t need anyone to point that out. So thanks for that.
>.<
Yeah I also never heard back from you at that point and I don’t make a habit of chasing guys around either.  The effort is two fold and goes both ways no?
-Steph
See what I did there?
So after thinking about this for a while, I thought to myself I’m going to unleash the truth on a few other guys who deserve it   need a reality check.  I’m good like that!

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