{"id":1426,"date":"2011-06-27T20:02:54","date_gmt":"2011-06-28T00:02:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=1426"},"modified":"2011-06-27T21:37:27","modified_gmt":"2011-06-28T01:37:27","slug":"dear-wolf-crying-drama-queens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=1426","title":{"rendered":"Dear wolf crying, drama Queens."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The one thing I truly dislike about social media is the blatant abuse of it.\u00a0 I get constant invites to bullshit \\&#8221;causes\\&#8221; such as tell Zynga to do what-the-fuck-ever with my farm\/mafia\/game show\/ kid brother\/ my pet monster, whatever.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\"><strong>THAT AIN\\&#8217;T A FUCKING CAUSE YO!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Causes was created so that people who have legitimate charities\/NFP organizations and\u00a0 <span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\"><strong>such to raise money and awareness about things that are important, you know like cancer?!? <\/strong><\/span>Your farm? Not so much.<\/p>\n<p>I don\\&#8217;t say that to be insensitive or mean, I play the odd game here and there on FB to <del>procrastinate from doing things that I <em>should <\/em>be doing<\/del> pass the time.\u00a0 There\\&#8217;s nothing wrong with that, although abusing such things like that are.\u00a0 So. Very. Wrong.\u00a0 So yeah, I report those.\u00a0 <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Yeah I totally am one of those people. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Anyway, another thing I dislike about social media in general is the need for it to be a popularity contest for some, an audience for others.\u00a0 Whatever the reason, some people abuse it to a whole other level.\u00a0 Such as a need to churn up constant drama!\u00a0 Especially when I see things like this:<\/p>\n<h3>OMFG! NO ONE LOVES ME, I WANT TO DIE &lt;\/3<\/h3>\n<h3>I\\&#8217;M GOING TO GO KILL MYSELF RIGHT NOW!<\/h3>\n<h3>(enter dramatic sigh\/sob here)<\/h3>\n<p>You know what I say to that?<\/p>\n<p>PLEASE DO!\u00a0 Because then I don\\&#8217;t have to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A. block you from my news-feed anymore and\/or kick you off my friends list for being a drama queen douche.<\/li>\n<li>B. Wonder if this time you\\&#8217;re actually being fucking serious or not.<\/li>\n<li>C. Waste my precious time and training trying to help you help yourself when really you just have a low self esteem and need some fucking redemption of yourself!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Suicide is serious, so stop fucking around about it and making it into some personal fucking game for your attention seeking ways! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\\&#8217;s not to say that I don\\&#8217;t care.\u00a0 Because clearly I DO otherwise I wouldn\\&#8217;t bother <a href=\\\"http:\/\/www.notafraidofyourpain.com\\\">with this<\/a>, <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.imalive.org\/\\\">nor this<\/a>.\u00a0 Suicide is no stranger to my life and out of all the people I lost, not one of them went ahead and broadcasted it all over the fucking internet.\u00a0 The signs were there (they always are) however they\\&#8217;re so subtle that you might not notice them if you\\&#8217;re not paying attention.\u00a0 The key to communication is to not only listen, but to hear what\\&#8217;s NOT being said.\u00a0 So when you scream suicide online like some fucking drama Queen idiot, the only thing you\\&#8217;re saying to me is this: I need help, I need someone to love me.\u00a0 <span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\"><strong>NOT<\/strong><\/span> :I want to die.<\/p>\n<p>So you think about this the next time you want to say shit like that, think about the people\\&#8217;s heads you\\&#8217;re fucking with, simply because you need attention.<\/p>\n<p><em>Think long and fucking hard.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>-Steph<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The one thing I truly dislike about social media is the blatant abuse of it.\u00a0 I get constant invites to bullshit \\&#8221;causes\\&#8221; such as tell Zynga to do what-the-fuck-ever with my farm\/mafia\/game show\/ kid brother\/ my pet monster, whatever. THAT AIN\\&#8217;T A FUCKING CAUSE YO! Causes was created so that people who have legitimate charities\/NFP [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[66,64,9,71,40,47],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1426","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-are-you-fing-kidding-me","category-deep-thoughts-with-steph","category-epic-fail","category-thats-fing-ridiculous","category-wrong","category-there-goes-the-neighbourhood"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1426","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1426"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1426\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1426"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1426"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1426"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}