{"id":1711,"date":"2012-02-13T19:21:22","date_gmt":"2012-02-14T00:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=1711"},"modified":"2012-02-13T19:50:00","modified_gmt":"2012-02-14T00:50:00","slug":"brain-bleed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=1711","title":{"rendered":"Brain bleed&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Reality\u00a0TV. I don\\&#8217;t get it, I don\\&#8217;t watch it and I can\\&#8217;t\u00a0fathom\u00a0why it\\&#8217;s so insanely popular. \u00a0The other day, I got sucked into watching the bachelor o.O<\/p>\n<p><em>Yeah I know right? \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Distasteful. \u00a0Also? Somewhat sad. \u00a0Pitting 12 women against each other in a so called quest for true love and marriage is like tossing some random body part into a pool of vultures. \u00a0Women are catty, competitive and let\\&#8217;s not forget basic rules of human nature: <em>You always seem to want what you can\\&#8217;t have.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>What floored me is that one woman who got busted for being in love with someone else and came on the show to \\&#8217;<em>get over the guy that she\\&#8217;s in love with because he doesn\\&#8217;t want to get married and <span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\"><strong>she<\/strong><\/span> does\\&#8217;<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pathetic.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So basically she\\&#8217;s putting herself out there on a <del>totally trashy<\/del> wildly popular show because she\\&#8217;s desperate to have <del>the wedding of her dreams<\/del> a husband. \u00a0WTF is wrong with you?!? \u00a0Same goes for the rest of them. \u00a0What\\&#8217;s the appeal? \u00a0I vaguely recall watching a talk show of sorts eons ago when what\\&#8217;s her name was on the bacholorette and they had two of the rejects on for an interview and they said that they didn\\&#8217;t get to spend all that much time with her. \u00a0So please enlighten me as to how you can fall in love with someone in such a short period of time, let alone someone you have to <em>share<\/em> with a dozen other people? \u00a0Than there\\&#8217;s the tears. \u00a0Good lord, these woman are always seemingly drinking their faces off or crying. \u00a0Sometimes both\u00a0simultaneously. \u00a0Are you really that desperate to be in love with someone? \u00a0I\\&#8217;m more inclined to think that they\\&#8217;re more in love with the idea of being in love with someone, anyone. \u00a0Perhaps they should check out <a href=\\\"http:\/\/www.tanyadavis.ca\/fr_home.cfm\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\">Tanya Davis\\&#8217;s<\/a> video <a href=\\\"http:\/\/youtu.be\/k7X7sZzSXYs\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\">How To Be Alone<\/a>. \u00a0Get some personal\u00a0enlightenment.<\/p>\n<p>You\\&#8217;re\u00a0welcome.<\/p>\n<p>Also Dave, Bob, Jim or whatever the hell that guys name is? \u00a0Crazy! \u00a0I\\&#8217;m sure that they\\&#8217;re getting paid a butt load of money to be on this show, and to his credit he seems mostly straight up (from the little bit that I watched) which is a good thing. \u00a0I\\&#8217;m not a huge fan of dating overall. \u00a0I\\&#8217;m not\u00a0particularly good at it and the more I like someone, seems the more\u00a0awkward\u00a0I seem to get. Also shy. \u00a0Yeah I know, hard to believe but it\\&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<p>Doesn\\&#8217;t help that I have become insanely picky as of late. \u00a0Most of the guys\u00a0I\\&#8217;ve\u00a0spoken with, I can\\&#8217;t be bothered to meet. \u00a0Because they\\&#8217;re total douche-bags who seemingly have a knack for spewing forth drivel that they think I want to hear. \u00a0I\\&#8217;ve only been on a few(4) dates in the past 13 months and only one. \u00a0Yes ONE guy I\\&#8217;ve actually gone out with twice. \u00a0I can\\&#8217;t\u00a0fathom having to date several men at a time trying to figure out which one I want to marry. \u00a0Let alone\u00a0embarrass myself on national\u00a0television. \u00a0The one thing that is the most challenging about dating? Subtext. \u00a0Good lord. \u00a0I need a\u00a0manual, or something.<\/p>\n<p><em>Just my .65 cents. \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\\\"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/406626_211355665619435_197852330303102_456751_234020992_n.jpg\\\"><img class=\\\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1712\\\" title=\\\"406626_211355665619435_197852330303102_456751_234020992_n\\\" src=\\\"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/406626_211355665619435_197852330303102_456751_234020992_n.jpg\\\" alt=\\\"\\\" width=\\\"420\\\" height=\\\"294\\\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reality\u00a0TV. I don\\&#8217;t get it, I don\\&#8217;t watch it and I can\\&#8217;t\u00a0fathom\u00a0why it\\&#8217;s so insanely popular. \u00a0The other day, I got sucked into watching the bachelor o.O Yeah I know right? \u00a0 Distasteful. \u00a0Also? 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