{"id":2190,"date":"2015-09-23T17:08:27","date_gmt":"2015-09-23T21:08:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=2190"},"modified":"2015-09-23T23:29:02","modified_gmt":"2015-09-24T03:29:02","slug":"youre-not-invited","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=2190","title":{"rendered":"You\\&#8217;re not invited."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s been brought to my attention that you would be hurt if I didn\u2019t invite you to my wedding.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Hurt?!? Really?!?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Fuck you!<\/em><br \/>\nYou should have thought about that before you shit on me for the last time. You are delusional if you think that I can just walk away from this and \u2018forgive and forget\u2019.<\/p>\n<p><em>That\u2019s not how this works. That\u2019s not how ANY of this works as a matter of fact. I will NOT, under any circumstances, reward bad behaviour.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you \u2018forgot\u2019 about the following incidents that have plagued me since last July.<br \/>\nI haven\u2019t forgotten, and here\u2019s a reminder for you.<\/p>\n<p>-July 2014 you took the liberty of talking shit about me to several of my friends; behind my back when I came home to Ontario last summer.<br \/>\nOh, you thought that I didn\u2019t know?<br \/>\nI have VERY loyal friends who felt that I had the right to know what people were saying about me behind my back. You have a mouth the size of the Grand Canyon and you stop at nothing to try and make me look bad.<\/p>\n<p>You are petty and jealous. You won\u2019t succeed in making me look bad; you however are doing a fine job of making yourself look bad, along with jealous, petty, bitter and conniving. You just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You damaged several relationships with your petty bullshit. Thankfully I was able to restore most of them because people can see through you. That was uncalled for regardless.<\/p>\n<p>In spite of it all, with the holidays coming up and knowing that it was most likely going to be my father\u2019s last Christmas, I decided to be the bigger person and let it go. Even just for the holidays. So I did. It was one of the best Christmases I have had in a while and thankfully you managed to keep that toxic mouth of yours shut so that you didn\u2019t ruin the holiday for the rest of us.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s fast forward to February of this year. My father passes away and some piece of shit robs my childhood home and steals pretty much every damn thing.<\/p>\n<p>ONCE AGAIN you take it to Facebook to spew forth your stupid petty bullshit.<br \/>\nI took you off my friends list; I couldn\u2019t deal with you and your shit any longer.<br \/>\nYou however took it a step further and blocked me. This is fine by me because now I don\u2019t need to see \u2013or- hear anymore of your toxic lies.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\\\"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ojcj8.jpg\\\"><img class=\\\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2191\\\" src=\\\"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/ojcj8.jpg\\\" alt=\\\"ojcj8\\\" width=\\\"508\\\" height=\\\"499\\\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>May rolls around, it\u2019s the weekend of my father\u2019s memorial service. I arrived in Ontario on the Friday and there you were, furiously texting away on your phone. I seen you take a picture of me, one that I did not authorize, followed up by more furious texting. So it\u2019s pretty obvious that you were once again, talking shit about me. Don\u2019t try and deny that, I\u2019m not deaf; in fact my hearing is just fine. If you\u2019re going to try and sneak a picture of me, perhaps you should turn the sound off your damn phone.<\/p>\n<p>My aunt drives you home, where you couldn\u2019t resist yet another opportunity to talk shit about me. Which of course is brought to MY attention because fuck you.<br \/>\nMy aunt took it upon herself to fill me in on how you lied to her about how I had been talking shit about you on Facebook, which is your MO, NOT mine. I am not that tacky thank you.<br \/>\nNo need to get into specifics but the reality of the situation is this, after I was given the opportunity to explain MY side of the story to my aunt, even she said and I quote:\u201d What is wrong with her?\u201d Not ME. She was talking about YOU.<\/p>\n<p>The next day, the day that I was honoring my father at his memorial service, you once again tried to steal the show and be the center of attention by being a bitter and vicious bitch.<\/p>\n<p>You foolishly shoot your mouth off about me <em><span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\"><strong>AT MY FATHERS FUNERAL<\/strong> <\/span><\/em>to my family and friends and once again try and play the victim as you always do and expect me to NOT find out about it?!?<\/p>\n<p>Are you brain dead?<\/p>\n<p>And yet after alllllll that (and there is SO much more) you have the audacity to tell my mom that you would be hurt if you weren\u2019t invited to my wedding?<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t get to pretend that everything is OK because YOU decided that it was because it\u2019s not. Not even remotely close.<br \/>\nLearn how to deal with your fucking anger; no one is willing to indulge your sorry ass anymore. You aren\\&#8217;t adult enough, nor capable enough to deal with anger.<\/p>\n<p>Lovely example you\\&#8217;re setting for your children by ignoring the problem for months and months and then all of a sudden out of no where you loose your shit several months later, scream and yell at people and then when YOU have your say, you think it\\&#8217;s over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>NO MORE.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Everyone keeps telling me to be the bigger person (once again) and let it go. <em>This isn\\&#8217;t fucking frozen!\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t trust you, and yet you want me to invite you to one of the most important days of my life?<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t fucking think so.<\/p>\n<p>I even found <a href=\\\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/9cdq9pNkH6E\\\">a perfect song for you<\/a>. (NSFW) or <a href=\\\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/j-k_dbOr1jY\\\">this one<\/a> seems to be pretty accurate as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s been brought to my attention that you would be hurt if I didn\u2019t invite you to my wedding. Hurt?!? Really?!? Fuck you! You should have thought about that before you shit on me for the last time. You are delusional if you think that I can just walk away from this and \u2018forgive and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[66,9,30,62,55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-are-you-fing-kidding-me","category-epic-fail","category-family","category-im-pretty-poed","category-stephs-junk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2190"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}