{"id":715,"date":"2010-02-24T23:32:27","date_gmt":"2010-02-25T04:32:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=715"},"modified":"2010-02-24T23:55:28","modified_gmt":"2010-02-25T04:55:28","slug":"oh-christ-i-have-another-stalker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/modologyworld.net\/steph\/?p=715","title":{"rendered":"Oh christ, I have another stalker!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh goodness!\u00a0 Some people never cease to blow my mind.\u00a0 Just when you think something is over, it never really is.\u00a0 Well at least not in this case.\u00a0 I use <a href=\\\"http:\/\/\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\">reCAPTCHA<\/a> which is free software to stop spam bots to hide my e-mail address that I have set up for this blog.\u00a0 I get enough spam messages as it is, who needs more?\u00a0 Anyway that being said, I have quite the following of readers (thanks guys!) and do get the odd e-mail from time to time about various things\/compliments\/asking for advice on something or whatever.\u00a0 I don\\&#8217;t mind that at all, unless its something utterly ridiculous such as this.  I also love calling people on their BS \ud83d\ude42  However this time, I\\&#8217;m not going to bother responding privately because its just SO utterly bogus (not to mention exceptionally amusing to me) so I thought I would share in the nefarious glee that I have in doing so with the rest of my dear readers.\u00a0 Normally I wouldn\\&#8217;t bother to stoop so utterly low, but this guy is a psycho-pathetic ass who obviously reads my blog (otherwise how would they have my personal e-mail?) also seems like he doesn\\&#8217;t want to let go.\u00a0 So to protect my own interests, I decided against it.\u00a0 I also created an e-mail just for my blog which I should have done in the first place (ah well live and learn right?)\u00a0 Besides this is pretty damn funny (at least to me) and well hey why be selfish and keep this all to myself?\u00a0 Not only that, this isn\\&#8217;t the first stalker I have had and I somehow doubt he\\&#8217;ll be the last&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><em>On Wed, Feb 24, 2010 at 9:34 PM, Style- **** &lt;style-****@hotmail.com&gt;  wrote:<br \/>\nHi Steph,<br \/>\nI found your blog about this Eric&#8230; Very intersting&#8230;<br \/>\nOn  which dating site have you met him? When your date with this stranger  was suppposed to be? The picture you posted is not him.<br \/>\nTo make a  long story short, I dated this guy for a few months now and as I have  not much information about him I was googoling in order to learn more  and found you blog. Tell me more please..<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>thank you,<br \/>\nA.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>OK so the original post in question is private (for now) Interesting facts that make this email WRONG on so many levels and how I smell a fake in all of this:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>The spelling mistakes!\u00a0 Holy Christ use spell check.\u00a0 Why is that a tip off?\u00a0 The rather exorbitant amount of errors\u00a0 in his text messages to me.\u00a0 OK in all fairness English ain\\&#8217;t that guys first language, but still.\u00a0 SPELL. CHECK. It comes with every browser doesn\\&#8217;t it?\u00a0 I don\\&#8217;t know about IE because I don\\&#8217;t use it but FF &amp; Chrome come equipped with it.\u00a0 *eye roll*<\/li>\n<li>I didn\\&#8217;t mention once where I met him in the first place, yet this person used the term dating site specifically.\u00a0 Why is that?\u00a0 I\\&#8217;m assuming that said person is obviously part of the \\&#8221;dating site\\&#8221; community.\u00a0 Nothing wrong with that of course, it was just so very specific when <em>I<\/em> for one <span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\">didn\\&#8217;t<\/span> say a word about where\/how we met hmm.<\/li>\n<li>Who said he was a stranger?\u00a0 I didn\\&#8217;t, yet they assumed it.<\/li>\n<li>Picture isn\\&#8217;t him.\u00a0 Heh, who knew?\u00a0 Except <strong>if<\/strong> they know whom I\\&#8217;m talking about, then how on earth can they say its not in fact him?\u00a0 Again quite puzzling to me.\u00a0 Especially since there was <span style=\\\"text-decoration: underline;\\\">NO<\/span> relevant information posted about him like his cell number\/ email address or anything like that (which I do have),\u00a0 that would <em>clearly<\/em> indicate that it is in fact him.\u00a0 Yet somehow they know its the same guy?\u00a0 Wow, I wish I possessed that gift!<\/li>\n<li>The e-mail, which is clearly a fake.\u00a0 OK yes lots of people do it, even I had an anon e-mail up until 10 mins ago when I canceled that account because I don\\&#8217;t use it for anything anymore but it did serve its purpose.\u00a0 However his e-mail is clearly a fake as well as in the one he used for MSN.\u00a0 Even his messenger name is simply \\&#8221;me\\&#8221; (someone clearly has something to hide).<\/li>\n<li>Apparently \\&#8221;A\\&#8221; <span style=\\\"text-decoration: line-through;\\\">has been dating this guy for a few months now<\/span>.\u00a0 Wait they said <em>dated<\/em>, not <em>dating<\/em> which would indicate that they are not longer \\&#8221;an item\\&#8221;.\u00a0 Seems strange to me that all of a sudden, out of no where you decide to Google him.\u00a0 Let alone somehow magically got led to my blog.\u00a0 Apparently this person knows nothing about tags and all that.\u00a0 Let alone how they work&#8230;<\/li>\n<li>Don\\&#8217;t know much about him?\u00a0 Also reeks of the BS stench.\u00a0 How on earth could you date someone for months (plural) and know so little about them?\u00a0 Seriously?\u00a0 That too I find exceptionally hard to believe.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>So \\&#8221;A\\&#8221; whomever you are (although I have an instinctive feeling that its HIM) I\\&#8217;m calling your bluff OK?\u00a0 Maybe I shouldn\\&#8217;t have gone out of my way to do so but really, I laughed so damn hard at this obviously futile bullshit attempt to get my attention I couldn\\&#8217;t help myself.\u00a0 See this is WHY almost no one knows: Where I live, my land line number (my cell is pay as you go and can\\&#8217;t be traced to me per say as it comes up unknown name), and other various tid bits of personal information about me that can actually lead to me personally.\u00a0 I\\&#8217;m not always that bright, but I am not<em> that<\/em> stupid either.\u00a0 I\\&#8217;ve had several stalkers before, this isn\\&#8217;t anything new to me&#8230;\u00a0 Which is kind of sad in a way, having one let alone several is anything but flattering.\u00a0 In fact its downright creepy!\u00a0 This isn\\&#8217;t the first time hes attempted to contact me and I sincerely doubt it\\&#8217;ll be the last.<\/p>\n<p>In other news&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Woman are nuts!\u00a0 I have a friend who obviously stuck his junk into the wrong chick.\u00a0 She\\&#8217;s turning out to be a nut job too!\u00a0 He ends it with her, <em>she claims<\/em> that she\\&#8217;s pregnant all of a sudden and demands money for an abortion.\u00a0 However after doing some simple homework (thanks Google!) in Quebec where we both happen to reside, <a href=\\\"http:\/\/www.morgentalermontreal.ca\/index.php?page=fees&amp;lang=_en\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\">abortions don\\&#8217;t cost anything<\/a>.\u00a0 Well not anymore, there was a law created in 2006 for this particular purpose.\u00a0 If of course you have a medicare card, if not well then you would have to.\u00a0 OK so I haven\\&#8217;t ever thankfully had to choose this particular route (but reading that website made me kinda sad to even ever have to contemplate it) but seriously why even bother?\u00a0 Things like that, you really shouldn\\&#8217;t screw around with.\u00a0 Its easy to do when your a woman yes.\u00a0 Unlike claiming you have an STD or something because being pregnant is strictly a chick thing.\u00a0 So at least he said to her, well if that\\&#8217;s the case then I\\&#8217;m taking you and I\\&#8217;ll pay for it when its over.\u00a0 Dear God!\u00a0 Why play games like that?\u00a0 Are you so damn vindictive that you feel this horrific compulsion to try and ruin someone\\&#8217;s life like that?\u00a0 Seriously!<\/p>\n<p>I feel your pain man, on so many levels!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh goodness!\u00a0 Some people never cease to blow my mind.\u00a0 Just when you think something is over, it never really is.\u00a0 Well at least not in this case.\u00a0 I use reCAPTCHA which is free software to stop spam bots to hide my e-mail address that I have set up for this blog.\u00a0 I get enough 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